I have the image in my head of the child with a bag ready to runaway after hurting someone because she feels like the best way to make things better is to disappear...
When Barb, the lung nurse called from National Jewish to set up my first visit over a year ago, she asked about my hopes or "dreams" concerning my health. One of the things I mentioned was that I would love for others to be able to forget that anything is wrong with me. It was a big one. It's not that I lack appreciation for what people do and feel for me or that I don't want to be loved...it's that for years now, too many years, I have been the source of heartache and worry for too many people that I love. I'm so tired of being a burden to my parents, my friends, and my co-workers. It seems like that childhood mentality makes sense - if I could just runaway I could stop the pain and worry I cause. If only it could be that simple...
Courtney called Tuesday morning with my official dates for this trip. She said I should plan to be at NJH for the full last week of July. Dr. Katial is the only one not on the schedule yet because he is booked, but she said Dr. Olson is convinced she can work him in somehow.
Even though I feel hopeful about this trip, it has already caused so much pain I'm wondering if it's worth it. Each decision I make to try to make things better seems to make them worse. Could I just runaway?
